ADHD and relationships

Are you an adult living with ADHD, or married to one? This is a quick and interesting read. While it doesn't give answers it may well spark some thoughts and ideas.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/may-i-have-your-attention/201708/is-adhd-blind-relationship-desirable

Jill

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